Divorce in England and Wales changed fundamentally in April 2022 when no-fault divorce became law, removing the need to blame your spouse and making the process simpler and less combative for thousands of couples every year. Whether you are just beginning to consider separation or you are ready to file today, this guide covers every stage — the law, the timeline, the costs, finances, pensions, children and how to keep legal fees as low as possible. We have written it in plain English so you can make informed decisions without needing a law degree. Clarity Guide exists to help you navigate divorce confidently from just £37.
1. How Divorce Works in England and Wales: An Overview
Divorce in England and Wales is a legal process that formally ends a marriage. It is governed by the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973 as significantly amended by the Divorce, Dissolution and Separation Act 2020, which came into force on 6 April 2022. The process is now administered almost entirely online through the HMCTS divorce portal, making it accessible to people who want to handle their own case without instructing a solicitor.
To divorce in England and Wales you must meet three basic requirements:
- You must have been married for at least one year. You cannot petition for divorce before your first wedding anniversary.
- The marriage must be legally recognised in England and Wales.
- Either you, your spouse, or both of you must be domiciled in England and Wales, or have been habitually resident here for at least 12 months immediately before the application.
Since April 2022 there is only one ground for divorce: that the marriage has broken down irreversibly. You no longer need to prove fault by citing adultery, unreasonable behaviour or desertion, nor do you need to have been separated for two or five years. You simply make a statement that the marriage has broken down irretrievably and the court accepts this at face value.
The divorce process itself — obtaining the legal order ending the marriage — is entirely separate from sorting out finances and property and making arrangements for any children. Many people assume divorce automatically divides their assets; it does not. You need a separate Financial Remedy Order or Consent Order to legally formalise how money, property and pensions are divided. We cover this in detail later in this guide.
There are two types of application:
- Sole application — one spouse applies on their own.
- Joint application — both spouses apply together, which can reduce conflict and speed up communication.
The divorce process moves through three key stages: the application, the Conditional Order (formerly Decree Nisi) and the Final Order (formerly Decree Absolute). We explain each stage in detail below. For a plain-English breakdown of the old and new terminology, see our article on Decree Nisi and Decree Absolute explained.
2. No-Fault Divorce — The Divorce, Dissolution and Separation Act 2020
The introduction of no-fault divorce on 6 April 2022 was the most significant reform to English and Welsh divorce law in over 50 years. Before this change, couples had to rely on one of five facts to prove irretrievable breakdown — adultery, unreasonable behaviour, desertion, two years' separation with consent, or five years' separation without consent. This meant many couples were forced to make allegations against each other, often inflaming tensions and making it harder to co-parent and reach financial agreements.
Under the Divorce, Dissolution and Separation Act 2020, the five facts have been abolished entirely. Instead, one or both spouses simply make a statement of irretrievable breakdown. The court does not question it, investigate it or require evidence. This applies equally to civil partnership dissolutions.
Key features of no-fault divorce include:
- No blame required. Neither party needs to allege fault or wrongdoing.
- The respondent cannot contest the divorce. Under the old law, a spouse could defend a petition and drag proceedings out for years. This is no longer possible — a respondent can acknowledge the application but cannot legally block it.
- Joint applications are now available. For the first time, both spouses can apply together on equal footing, which often leads to more cooperative proceedings.
- A minimum 20-week reflection period is built into the process between the application and the Conditional Order. This gives both parties time to reflect, attempt mediation and sort out arrangements for children and finances before the marriage formally ends.
One important point: no-fault divorce does not mean no-fault in terms of finances. When dividing assets, conduct can still be considered by a court in exceptional circumstances — though in practice this is rare and the bar is very high.
No-fault divorce has made uncontested divorce the norm rather than the exception. If you and your spouse agree that the marriage is over, the legal process of ending it is now straightforward. Read our guide on uncontested divorce in England and Wales to understand how smooth the process can be when both parties cooperate.
The reform also encourages couples to use the time saved on contested proceedings to focus on what really matters: fair financial settlements and child arrangements — the issues that have the most lasting impact on families.
3. Step-by-Step: Applying for Divorce Online (D8 Form and HMCTS Portal)
Most divorces in England and Wales are now handled through the HMCTS online divorce portal at hmcts.service.gov.uk. The portal guides you through each step and is available 24 hours a day. You can also apply using the paper D8 form by post, but the online route is faster and easier for most people.
Here is the step-by-step process:
- Create an account on the HMCTS portal. You will need an email address and a form of ID. For a joint application, both spouses need accounts.
- Complete the divorce application. You will provide details about the marriage (date, place, full names), confirm you meet the jurisdictional requirements and make your statement that the marriage has broken down irretrievably. If applying jointly, both spouses submit the same application.
- Upload your marriage certificate. You must provide the original or a certified copy. If your certificate is in a foreign language, you will need a certified translation.
- Pay the court fee. The current fee is £593. If you are on a low income you may be eligible for a fee remission — check using the HMCTS Help with Fees scheme (reference beginning EX160).
- The court issues the application and sends a copy to your spouse (the respondent) along with an Acknowledgement of Service form, which they must return to confirm they have received it.
- Wait 20 weeks from the application date. This is the mandatory reflection period. You cannot apply for the Conditional Order until this period has passed.
- Apply for the Conditional Order. After 20 weeks, you (or both of you in a joint application) confirm you still wish to proceed. A judge reviews the paperwork and, if satisfied, pronounces the Conditional Order.
- Wait at least 6 weeks and 1 day after the Conditional Order. This further waiting period exists so you can finalise financial arrangements before the marriage formally ends.
- Apply for the Final Order. This is the document that legally ends your marriage. Once granted, you are divorced.
For a detailed walkthrough of filling in the D8 form itself — including the specific boxes, what each question means and common errors — see our dedicated D8 divorce form guide. We also have a step-by-step guide specifically on how to file for divorce in England and Wales.
Important tip: Do not apply for your Final Order until your financial settlement is either agreed by Consent Order or you are comfortable proceeding without one. Once the Final Order is granted, certain rights — particularly pension rights — can be extinguished if not protected by a court order first.
4. The Divorce Timeline — Application to Final Order
Understanding the official stages of the divorce process helps you plan ahead and avoid unnecessary delays. Here is how the timeline breaks down from start to finish:
| Stage | What happens | Minimum time from previous stage |
|---|---|---|
| Application submitted | You file online or by post; court fee paid; marriage certificate uploaded | — |
| Application served on respondent | Court sends application to your spouse; respondent completes Acknowledgement of Service | Typically 1–2 weeks after filing |
| Conditional Order application | You confirm you wish to proceed; judge reviews the file | At least 20 weeks after application date |
| Conditional Order pronounced | Court issues the Conditional Order (formerly Decree Nisi) | Usually 2–4 weeks after applying for CO |
| Final Order application | You apply to legally end the marriage | At least 6 weeks and 1 day after Conditional Order |
| Final Order granted | Marriage is legally ended; you are divorced | Usually 1–3 weeks after Final Order application |
The absolute minimum time from application to Final Order is approximately 26 weeks (around 6 months). In practice, the average uncontested divorce in England and Wales currently takes between 6 and 12 months, with delays caused by court backlogs, slow responses from respondents and complex financial negotiations.
The terminology changed in April 2022. What was previously called the Decree Nisi is now the Conditional Order. The Decree Absolute is now the Final Order. The underlying legal effect is identical — only the names changed. Our article on Decree Nisi and Decree Absolute explained covers both the old and new terminology in detail.
Delays to watch for:
- The respondent failing to return the Acknowledgement of Service on time
- The court losing or misplacing documents (more common than you might expect)
- Errors in the original application requiring correction
- Financial proceedings running in parallel and taking longer than expected
- HMCTS system backlogs, which have affected processing times in recent years
If the respondent does not return the Acknowledgement of Service, the applicant can arrange for the application to be served by a process server or apply to the court for dispensation of service. This adds time and potentially cost but is entirely manageable without a solicitor.
5. How Long Does Divorce Take in England and Wales?
This is one of the most common questions people ask, and the honest answer is: it depends. The law sets minimum waiting periods but not maximum ones. Several factors affect how long your divorce will take in practice.
The legal minimums:
- 20 weeks from application to applying for Conditional Order
- 6 weeks and 1 day from Conditional Order to applying for Final Order
- Total minimum: approximately 26 weeks
Typical timescales in practice:
- Straightforward uncontested divorce with no financial complexity: 6–9 months
- Divorce with agreed financial settlement (Consent Order): 9–14 months
- Divorce with contested finances going to court: 18 months to 3+ years
Court processing times vary significantly. The HMCTS online portal has reduced delays for straightforward cases, but some courts are still working through backlogs. Applicants who submit complete, accurate applications with all required documents experience the fewest delays.
What you can do to speed things up:
- Apply online rather than by post — online applications are processed faster
- Ensure your marriage certificate is ready before you apply
- Make sure the respondent is willing to respond promptly to the Acknowledgement of Service
- Sort out your financial settlement in parallel with — not after — the divorce proceedings
- Check your application carefully before submitting to avoid rejection for errors
The financial settlement is often the biggest cause of delay. Couples who cannot agree on how to divide assets may end up in the Financial Remedy Court, where cases can take well over a year to resolve. By contrast, couples who reach agreement and formalise it in a Consent Order can keep costs and timescales much lower.
For a deeper dive into timescales, including real-world case examples, see our dedicated article on how long divorce takes in England and our broader guide on how long divorce takes in the UK.
6. Divorce Costs in England and Wales — Court Fees, Solicitor Fees and DIY
Divorce costs vary enormously depending on whether you instruct solicitors, how much you dispute and how complex your finances are. Here is a clear breakdown of what you can expect to pay.
Court fee: The HMCTS court fee for a divorce application is currently £593. This is a fixed government fee and applies whether you use a solicitor or do it yourself. If you are on a low income, you may be entitled to a full or partial fee remission — apply using the Help with Fees scheme before you submit your application.
Solicitor fees: Solicitors in England and Wales typically charge between £150 and £400 per hour (higher in London). A straightforward uncontested divorce handled by a solicitor might cost £1,500–£3,000 in legal fees on top of the court fee. If your case involves contested finances, a house, a business or significant pension assets, total legal costs can easily reach £10,000–£30,000 or more per party. If the case goes to a full Financial Remedy Court hearing, costs can exceed £50,000.
DIY divorce (litigant in person): You are entirely entitled to handle your own divorce. Many thousands of people do so every year. The only unavoidable cost is the £593 court fee (or nothing if you qualify for fee remission). Some people use an online guide like Clarity Guide — available from £37 — to understand exactly what to do at each stage, fill in forms correctly and avoid costly mistakes.
Other costs to consider:
- Consent Order drafting: If you reach a financial agreement, you will need a Consent Order sealed by the court. Drafting this document is a legal task that many people instruct a solicitor for — typically £500–£1,500. Some online services offer this at lower cost.
- Mediation: Family mediation typically costs £100–£200 per person per session. It is often significantly cheaper than court proceedings and can help you reach agreement faster.
- Pension sharing annex: If a pension sharing order is part of your settlement, pension providers often charge a fee to implement it — typically £500–£2,000 depending on the scheme.
- Valuing assets: Formal property valuations, business valuations or pension valuations (a Cash Equivalent Transfer Value is free; an actuarial report costs more) can add to costs.
Cost-saving tip: The divorce procedure itself (getting the legal order) is relatively simple and well-suited to a DIY approach. Where many people benefit from professional help is in negotiating and formalising the financial settlement — particularly where significant assets, pensions or children are involved.
7. Dividing Finances and Property on Divorce
Sorting out who gets what is almost always the most complex and emotionally charged part of divorce. England and Wales operates a discretionary system — unlike many countries, there is no automatic 50/50 split of assets. Instead, the court (or the parties themselves by agreement) must apply a set of statutory factors to reach a fair outcome.
The starting point in most cases involving a long marriage, a family home and children is an equal division — but the court has wide discretion to depart from equality when fairness demands it. The relevant factors are set out in section 25 of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973 and include:
- The income, earning capacity, property and financial resources of each party — both current and future
- The financial needs, obligations and responsibilities of each party
- The standard of living enjoyed during the marriage
- The age of each party and the length of the marriage
- Any physical or mental disability of either party
- Contributions made by each party to the welfare of the family, including homemaking and childcare
- The conduct of each party (in exceptional circumstances only)
- The value of any benefit — such as a pension — that either party will lose as a result of the divorce
What counts as a marital asset? Generally, all assets built up during the marriage are treated as matrimonial assets and subject to division. These include the family home, savings, investments, business interests and pensions accumulated during the marriage. Assets brought in before the marriage or inherited individually may be treated differently, especially in shorter marriages — but nothing is automatically ring-fenced.
The family home is usually the largest asset. Common outcomes include one party buying out the other, selling the property and splitting the proceeds, or a deferred sale arrangement (a Mesher Order) where the property is not sold until the children leave full-time education.
Reaching agreement: The vast majority of financial settlements are reached by agreement rather than through a court hearing. Couples can negotiate directly, through solicitors, or with the help of a mediator. Once agreed, the settlement should be formalised in a Consent Order approved by the court — without this, the agreement is not legally binding and either party could make a financial claim years later.
For a comprehensive guide to the financial settlement process — including how assets are valued, what orders are available and how to negotiate — see our detailed article on financial settlement on divorce in England and Wales.
8. Financial Remedy Orders and Consent Orders
Once you and your spouse have reached agreement on how to divide your finances, or if you need the court to decide, the outcome is formalised through a Financial Remedy Order. Understanding the different types of order available helps you plan your settlement effectively.
Types of financial orders available on divorce:
- Property Adjustment Order: Transfers ownership of property from one spouse to the other, or orders a sale. Most commonly used for the family home.
- Lump Sum Order: Requires one party to pay a single lump sum to the other. Can be paid immediately or by instalments.
- Periodical Payments Order (maintenance): Ongoing regular payments from one spouse to the other. Often called spousal maintenance. Can be time-limited (a clean break with a defined end date) or joint-lives (lasting until death or remarriage of the recipient).
- Pension Sharing Order: Splits a pension fund between the spouses, creating a new pension pot for the recipient. The only way to achieve a true clean break where pensions are involved.
- Pension Attachment Order (earmarking): Redirects part of pension benefits to the former spouse when they become payable. Less commonly used than pension sharing.
- Clean Break Order: Dismisses all future financial claims between the parties. Vital for protecting yourself from future claims — even if there are no significant assets to divide now.
Consent Orders: When both parties agree, their agreement is embodied in a Consent Order — a document drafted by lawyers (or increasingly by online services) and submitted to the court for a judge to approve. The judge applies a brief scrutiny to ensure the agreement is broadly fair. Once sealed by the court, a Consent Order is legally binding and enforceable.
Why a Consent Order matters even when you agree: Many separating couples reach a handshake agreement and never formalise it. This is legally dangerous. Without a court order, either party can make a financial claim against the other for years — sometimes decades — after divorce. A clean break Consent Order prevents this entirely.
Contested financial proceedings: If you cannot agree, either party can apply to the court for a Financial Remedy Order. This triggers a court process that usually involves three hearings: a First Appointment, a Financial Dispute Resolution (FDR) hearing and, if still unresolved, a Final Hearing. This process is expensive, time-consuming and stressful — which is why mediation and negotiation are almost always preferable.
9. Pensions and Divorce in England and Wales
Pensions are often the largest financial asset in a marriage after the family home — and yet they are frequently overlooked or undervalued during divorce negotiations. In England and Wales, pensions built up during the marriage are treated as matrimonial assets and must be considered in any financial settlement.
Types of pension:
- Defined Contribution (DC) pensions: Also known as money purchase pensions. The pot has a clear cash value — the Cash Equivalent Transfer Value (CETV) — which makes them relatively straightforward to value and divide.
- Defined Benefit (DB) pensions: Including final salary and career average pensions, often held by public sector workers (teachers, NHS staff, civil servants, police). These are more complex to value because their value depends on future income promises rather than a current pot. The CETV can understate the true value of a DB pension, particularly for older members. An actuarial report may be needed for accurate valuation.
- State Pension: The new State Pension cannot be shared on divorce, but each party's State Pension entitlement is relevant to the overall picture.
The three main approaches to pensions on divorce:
- Pension Sharing: A percentage of the pension is transferred to the other spouse, creating a completely separate pension pot. This achieves a clean break and is the most commonly used approach where pensions are significant.
- Pension Offsetting: Instead of splitting the pension, the pension holder keeps their pension in full and the other spouse receives a greater share of other assets (such as more equity in the home). Simple to implement but requires careful valuation to ensure fairness.
- Pension Attachment (Earmarking): The court orders that when the pension comes into payment, a portion goes to the former spouse. No clean break is achieved and the recipient's income depends on when and whether the pension holder retires.
Getting the right advice: Pension valuations and sharing can be complex. For significant pension assets — particularly DB schemes — it is worth instructing a pension on divorce expert (PODE) or an independent financial adviser (IFA) who specialises in divorce. The cost of a report (typically £500–£2,000) is usually far less than the cost of getting it wrong.
Key practical step: Always request a CETV from your spouse's pension provider early in the process. Providers are legally required to provide this, though it can take several weeks. You cannot properly negotiate a financial settlement without knowing the value of all pension assets.
10. Children and Divorce in England and Wales
Divorce ends a marriage — it does not end parenthood. Both parents retain parental responsibility (assuming it was established at or after birth) regardless of whether they are married and regardless of the outcome of the divorce. This means both parents have the right and responsibility to be involved in decisions about their children's upbringing, education, health and welfare.
The divorce process itself does not deal with children. The court does not automatically make orders about where children live or how much time they spend with each parent. Instead, the law strongly encourages parents to agree these arrangements themselves — with professional help if needed.
Child Arrangements Orders: If parents cannot agree, either party can apply to the family court for a Child Arrangements Order. This replaces the old residence and contact orders. A Child Arrangements Order can specify where a child lives (lives with) and the time they spend with the other parent (spends time with).
The welfare principle: In all decisions about children, the court's paramount consideration is the welfare of the child, as set out in the Children Act 1989. The court applies a welfare checklist that considers the child's wishes and feelings (taking into account age and maturity), their physical and emotional needs, the likely effect of any change in circumstances, and the capability of each parent to meet those needs.
Parenting plans: A written parenting plan — setting out arrangements for where children live, school holidays, special occasions, communication with the absent parent and how disagreements will be resolved — can be enormously helpful even if not legally binding. Many family mediators will help you draft one.
Child maintenance: Financial support for children is separate from the divorce and from spousal financial orders. The Child Maintenance Service (CMS) uses a statutory formula to calculate maintenance based on the paying parent's income and the number of nights the child spends with each parent. Parents can agree their own arrangements, but if they cannot agree the CMS can calculate and enforce an amount.
Important note: Keeping children out of conflict is consistently shown to improve their long-term wellbeing. Where parents can communicate respectfully about children — even if they use a mediator or parenting coordinator to help — children do significantly better.
11. Separation vs Divorce — What Is the Difference?
Many couples separate — stop living together as a couple — without immediately divorcing. It is important to understand the legal difference between separation and divorce, because they have very different legal and financial consequences.
Separation (informally): There is no formal legal process required to separate in England and Wales. You can simply decide to live apart. However, informal separation does not end your marriage and does not protect your finances. Your spouse remains your legal next of kin, may have rights over assets you acquire after separation, and could potentially make financial claims against you for years.
Legal separation (Judicial Separation): An alternative to divorce that allows couples to formalise their separation through the court without actually ending the marriage. A Judicial Separation can be obtained at any time (there is no one-year minimum) and allows the court to make financial orders. It may suit people who have religious objections to divorce or who do not yet meet the one-year marriage requirement. However, it does not end the marriage — you remain legally married and cannot remarry.
Separation agreements: A written agreement between separating spouses about how they will manage their finances, property and children during separation. Separation agreements are not automatically legally binding in the same way as a court order, but they can carry significant weight if properly drafted and signed. They are useful as a temporary measure while divorce proceedings are being considered or where religious reasons preclude divorce.
Financial risks of delaying divorce: The longer you delay formalising your financial settlement, the greater the risk of unexpected claims. If your spouse accrues significant new wealth, pension or debt after separation but before financial settlement, this can affect your position. If your spouse dies before you finalise financial arrangements, the situation becomes considerably more complex.
When to choose separation over divorce:
- You have been married less than one year
- You have religious or personal objections to divorce
- You want time to reflect before making a permanent decision
- You need the court to make financial orders urgently but are not yet ready to divorce
For most people, once they have decided the marriage is over, proceeding with divorce and formalising the financial settlement is the cleanest and most protective course of action.
12. Mediation and Alternatives to Court
Going to court to resolve financial or child disputes during divorce is expensive, stressful and slow. The courts actively encourage — and in many cases require — couples to attempt non-court dispute resolution before issuing proceedings. There are several effective alternatives to court worth knowing about.
Family Mediation: A trained, impartial family mediator helps both parties communicate and negotiate towards their own agreement. The mediator does not make decisions — they facilitate the conversation. Mediation is typically much faster and cheaper than court proceedings. Sessions usually cost £100–£200 per person per session, and many cases are resolved in two to four sessions.
Before applying to court for financial or children orders, most applicants must attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM) with a mediator. This is a requirement under the Family Procedure Rules. There are exceptions — for example, in cases involving domestic abuse — but for most people a MIAM is a prerequisite.
Collaborative Divorce: Each party instructs a specially trained collaborative lawyer. Both lawyers and both clients sign an agreement to resolve matters without going to court. They meet together in a series of four-way meetings. If negotiations break down and court proceedings become necessary, the collaborative lawyers must step aside. This creates a strong incentive to reach agreement.
Arbitration: Parties can appoint a private family arbitrator — usually a senior barrister or retired judge — to make binding decisions about finances or children. Arbitration is faster than court and offers more control over timing and procedure. The arbitrator's decision is binding and can be converted into a court order.
Solicitor-led negotiation: Each party instructs their own solicitor who negotiates on their behalf through correspondence and meetings. This is the traditional approach and remains common, particularly where assets are complex or relationships are very acrimonious. Costs are higher than mediation but lower than court if agreement is reached without a hearing.
Online Dispute Resolution (ODR): A growing number of services offer online platforms for couples to exchange financial information and negotiate settlements with professional assistance. These can be cost-effective for straightforward cases.
The key message from family courts and legal professionals is consistent: reaching agreement outside court is almost always better for both parties — faster, cheaper and less damaging to ongoing co-parenting relationships.
13. Common Mistakes to Avoid When Divorcing in England and Wales
Even well-organised, cooperative divorces can go wrong if people are not aware of common pitfalls. Here are the most important mistakes to avoid:
- Not getting a Consent Order. This is the single most dangerous mistake. Couples who reach a verbal or informal written agreement without formalising it in a court-sealed Consent Order leave themselves exposed to future financial claims — sometimes many years later. Always get the court to seal your financial agreement.
- Applying for the Final Order too early. Once the Final Order is granted, you lose certain automatic rights — including some pension rights. Never apply for the Final Order until your financial settlement is secured by a court order, or you have taken advice about what rights you may be waiving.
- Ignoring pensions. Many people focus entirely on the family home and overlook pensions entirely. In a long marriage, pensions can be worth more than the property. Always obtain CETVs and factor pensions into your negotiations.
- Signing documents you do not understand. Whether it is a financial questionnaire (Form E), a proposed Consent Order or a Deed of Trust, never sign legal documents without understanding what you are agreeing to. Use a plain-English guide or seek advice first.
- Using the children as leverage. Using child arrangements as a bargaining chip in financial negotiations is harmful to children and often backfires legally. Judges take a dim view of it.
- Hiding assets. Full financial disclosure is a legal requirement. Concealing assets from your spouse — or failing to disclose them on Form E — is contempt of court and can result in serious consequences, including the reopening of financial settlements years later.
- Letting emotions drive decisions. Divorce is emotionally painful. But decisions made in anger or distress — for example, insisting on a contested court hearing to make a point — often cost far more than they gain. Where possible, make financial decisions based on figures, not feelings.
- Delaying unnecessarily. Procrastinating on financial negotiations prolongs the emotional and financial uncertainty for both parties. The sooner the financial settlement is reached and sealed, the sooner both parties can move forward.
- Not updating your will and beneficiary nominations. Divorce does not automatically revoke a will in England and Wales (though it does affect gifts and appointments). It also has no effect on pension beneficiary nominations. Update these as soon as possible.
14. Getting Help Without a Solicitor — DIY Divorce and Clarity Guide
You have the right to represent yourself in divorce proceedings. This is known as acting as a litigant in person, and it is entirely legal and increasingly common. With the introduction of the HMCTS online portal and the simplification of proceedings under no-fault divorce, the practical barriers to handling your own divorce have never been lower.
What you can realistically do yourself:
- Complete and submit the divorce application through the HMCTS portal
- Respond to court correspondence and manage your case online
- Negotiate financial arrangements directly with your spouse
- Submit a Consent Order to the court for approval (though drafting it to the required standard is challenging without legal training)
- Apply for Child Arrangements Orders in relatively straightforward cases
Where professional help adds the most value:
- Valuing and dividing complex assets — businesses, farms, overseas property
- Pension sharing — particularly defined benefit pensions
- Drafting the Consent Order to ensure it is complete, unambiguous and properly protects your interests
- Negotiating where there is significant inequality of bargaining power or a history of financial control
- Cases involving domestic abuse, international elements or significant hidden assets
How Clarity Guide helps: Clarity Guide is a plain-English divorce guide designed specifically for people in England and Wales who want to handle their own divorce confidently — without paying hundreds of pounds an hour for a solicitor to explain the basics. Starting from just £37, Clarity Guide walks you through every stage of the divorce process, explains what each form and document means, tells you what to do and when, and helps you avoid the most common and costly mistakes.
Clarity Guide is not a law firm and does not provide legal advice — but for the majority of people going through an uncontested divorce where both parties are broadly cooperative, it provides everything you need to navigate the process with confidence. Where your case involves significant complexity — a large pension, a business, a contested financial dispute — we will tell you clearly when it is worth investing in specialist legal advice.
The combination of a good plain-English guide for the procedural steps, a specialist solicitor or IFA for the complex bits and mediation for any disagreements gives most people the best possible outcome at the lowest possible cost.
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